The Science of Stage Fright and How to Overcome It

“According to most studies, people’s number one fear is public speaking. Number two is death. Death is number two. Does that seem right? That means to the average person, if you have to go to a funeral, you’re better off in the casket than doing the eulogy.”

Jerry Seinfeld

That sudden rush of adrenaline, sweaty palms, and a racing heart — stage fright isn’t just a myth; it’s deeply embedded in our biology. But why do we feel it? And more importantly, how can we overcome it?

Why Do We Experience Stage Fright?

At its core, stage fright is a primal, evolutionary reaction. Millennia ago, when our ancestors confronted potential threats, their bodies responded with a ‘fight or flight’ mechanism. A sudden rush of adrenaline would prepare them either to face the danger or run away from it.

Today, while we aren’t facing predators, the perceived threat of judgment, failure, or making a mistake in front of others can trigger this same physiological response. Your body doesn’t differentiate between a saber-toothed tiger and an audience — in both cases, it thinks you’re in danger.

The Physical Manifestation

When you’re anxious, your body produces adrenaline. This hormone:

  1. Speeds up your heart rate: to pump more oxygen to your muscles.
  2. Dilates your pupils: allowing more light to enter so you can “see the danger.”
  3. Tightens your muscles: preparing you to either fight or flee.
  4. Slows down digestion: because digesting food isn’t a priority when you’re in danger. This can lead to that all-too-familiar “butterflies in your stomach” feeling.

Recognizing these symptoms for what they are is the first step to taking control.

Overcoming Stage Fright: Influence Your Response

  1. Reframe Your Nervous Energy: One of the most effective techniques to combat stage fright is to reinterpret your physiological responses. Instead of viewing them as indicators of nervousness, reframe them as signs of excitement. Both emotions produce similar physical sensations, but excitement is a positive emotion that can enhance your performance.
  2. Practice Deep Breathing: Deep, controlled breathing can help counteract the effects of adrenaline. Inhale slowly through your nose for a count of four, hold for a count of four, and exhale through your mouth for another count of four. This will also help you maintain control over your voice.
  3. Visualize Success: Just as athletes visualize winning a game, speakers can benefit from imagining a successful presentation. This not only boosts your confidence but helps you become familiar with the idea of success, making it seem more attainable.
  4. Familiarize Yourself: Get to know your surroundings. Visit the venue beforehand. Walk around, stand at the podium, and look at the seating area. Familiarity can breed comfort.
  5. Practice: The more familiar you are with your material, the more confident you’ll feel. Practice your speech multiple times. Know it so well that even if you’re distracted by nerves, your rehearsal will guide you through.
  6. Engage With Your Audience: Make your speech a conversation. Engage your audience with questions, eye contact, and relatable anecdotes. When they’re nodding in agreement or laughing at a joke, it reassures you that they’re with you.
  7. Acceptance: Sometimes, nerves just happen. And that’s okay. Even seasoned professionals feel nervous. Accepting that it’s a natural feeling and not a sign of impending doom can be liberating.

Stage fright, at its essence, is your body’s way of preparing you for what it thinks is a dangerous situation. But by reframing, preparing, and practicing the right techniques, you can turn that evolutionary response into a tool for success rather than a barrier.

Remember, influential people are not those without fears but those who understand their fears and know how to navigate through them. Your stage is waiting. Embrace it with both its challenges and its rewards.

Sharí Alexander

Sharí Alexander

Founder - Elevated í

Executive Communication Coaching
& Message Strategy Services

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