Looking Sexy

Dating Body LanguageI like a good chuckle from Facebook just like anyone else. I thought that this meme presented a nice opportunity to demonstrate a few interesting points about body language, context, and seeing the big picture. So, let’s just jump right into it.

First, read the caption on the pic.

Did that? Good.

Whether you laughed or not, or if you find the model cute or not (which, um, I do) you can still learn a thing or two about body language and perception. Plus, this post might just help you amplify your sexiness by a notch or two. Bonus!

Let’s break it down.

Man on on the left is clearly more sexy and enticing, but why? Is it the beard? Maybe, but there a few tricks being pulled in the photo.

Lighting

Man on left is more dimly lit than the others. The phrase is “tall, dark, and handsome” for a reason. Compare it to the other two pictures with painfully glaring lighter patches on his chest, exposing a slightly odd tan line and man on left is winning the sexy competition.

Where to Look

The man on the left is the only picture out of all three where he is not looking directly into the camera. His gaze in the distance makes him look deep, desirable, delicious. “Hey hottie. Whatchya lookin’ at over there?”

Mouth Breathers

Here’s the point I really wanted to make. Guy on left, lips together. Guy on right, lips parted.

Closed mouth = confidence, sexy.

Open mouth = dimwitted, weak, not cool.

I’m thinking that the creepy factor of the middle guy is amplified by his slight smirk. Doesn’t give you the warm and fuzzy feeling you’re looking for.

What Did We Learn?

If you want to look sexy, have good lighting and shut your mouth. 😉 (I kid, I kid … but….seriously… there’s some truth to this.)

Previous

Next

Enter Your Email & We'll Send the Mindreader Blueprint Right Over!

Enter your best email to get your free copy of The Mindreader Blueprint

You have successfully sent your request for The Mindreader Blueprint! In a few minutes, check your email to download your copy and enjoy!

Let's Do This!

To join the waitlist for the Influence Momentum Challenge,
enter your best email address
and we will send you details on how to get started!

Welcome to the Challenge! Expect an email with more details! Be sure to add shari@shari-alexander to your "Safe Subscriber" list so you're sure to get all the details about our next upcoming challenge!

Make Your Sales Calls Easier
with this at-a-glance Roadmap!

To download your copy of the Sales Call Roadmap,
enter your best email address
and we will send it right over!

You're on your way to better sales calls! Check your inbox with more details! Be sure to add shari@shari-alexander to your "Safe Subscriber" list so you're sure to get the Roadmap and all the helpful tips!

The Mindreader Blueprint

Enter your best email to get access to your copy of The Mindreader Blueprint

You have Successfully Subscribed!